Nadine J Walters – My Life

My. question for me today: What happens when I just let go?

My Answer: It all depends on the situation. Letting go while driving or operating heavy machinery would be disastrous, but in most other circumstances, the outcome is often fine—sometimes even better than expected.

I am at a point in my life where it is easier and more acceptable to let things go. Whether that means choosing not to do something or simply going with the flow, I don’t have to worry much about criticism or judgment. And if I do get critiqued, it’s usually from my children in a sweet, lighthearted way. I have developed a habit of not always paying attention or keeping up with new things—just because I can. One of the perks of getting older is that you can play the “I didn’t know” card every once in a while. It’s almost like a free pass.

It’s not that I do anything wrong, but sometimes it’s just easier to claim ignorance and let someone else take over. After years of doing everything for everyone, maybe this is my way of letting go. In a sense, it is.

Letting go can mean allowing things to wash over you without reacting, choosing not to engage, or physically and emotionally releasing responsibilities that no longer bring joy. In yoga, there’s a saying: “Let go of things that no longer serve you.” I would add: “Let go of things you no longer want to do.” That is exactly where I am in life right now, and in just the last few days, I have truly embraced this mindset.

I have stepped away from obligations that no longer fulfill me and replaced that time with activities that bring me joy. Today, I started a series of six paintings, prepared four additional panels, completed three sketches in my sketchbook, took a walk, had my dog groomed, shopped for self-care goodies, had my eyes checked, watched three television shows, made an incredible pasta dish, took another walk, and ended the day with a relaxing bubble bath.

Right now, I feel as if I don’t have a care in the world. I suppose that’s what happens when you not only let go—but fully release.